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As many of y'all know I'm a closet trans-gendered cross dresser thats been trying to live an uptight Christian life. Well my mom disagrees with my alternative life style and thinks that my new 44 year old cross dressing boy/girlfriend is a crooked cop posing as a cross dresser thats lying about his/her age. Because my mom said he/she looked younger than 44.

Which I think is ridiculous being that the site we met at which is like a myspace for trans-gendered people prohibits people from lying about they're age. Could she be right or is she being paranoid. Because me and this person got off to a good start it would break my heart if he/she was lying.

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I treasure those who I love that love me in return. <3

She's not being paranoid, she's trying to make you paranoid. There's absolutely nothing illegal with what you're doing, at all, from what I read.

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Praise Be To Helix!

Prey tell, a crooked cop is stalking a transgendered 27 year old! Watson, fetch me the gun. There's trouble afoot!

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Oh wait, aren't I forgetting something? Ah right, to apply the true Holmesian method I think I have to ask for all the details of the case first. Holmes really was quite insistent to a fair number of his clients that they tell the complete and unabridged story so that we may scour and scrutinize through even the tiniest details. As seemingly peculiar of a case this may be, without more details we don't really have much to go by here.

So long as I'm applying the Holmesian method, you won't want to rule out any possibilities until that point in time where they simply cannot be. Blitzsage's assessment of the situation is very probable but it could never hurt to take some safety precautions. For one thing, what sort of verification techniques does this personals site use to validate its rules? Do they request a valid means of identification? Do they have a staff to check up on these things? If not, it's very easy to lie about your identity on the web and have nobody ever know.

I wouldn't suggest breaking up with this person just yet, since I'm assuming they make you happy but it is rather easy to lie about your identity on the web. If you really believe he's trying to deceive you, it could never hurt to do a few background checks whilst nobody's looking. Although if he's a cop on official business or has some rather shady friends, he could probably doctor up some false background if he really wanted.

Speaking of which, I find that's the most strikingly singular thing case. Your mother thinking he's a cop that is. Why? Did you commit some sort of crime that'd justify your being assigned your own special detective? Did she see him with possessions that only an officer would have? Assuming you haven't neglected to tell us that you've always known him as a cop to begin with, it'd revalidate her claims if you could somehow verify it.

That being said, I'm a bit of an insecure individual myself, so you might want to take what I say with a grain of salt and a dash of sugar.

This post has been edited by Tonepoet on 17th April 2010 21:43

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Role reversal at its finest.

No she thinks they keep tabs on people with unusual lifestyles because all the bad things that's been happening on the news. Plus she's against that sort of lifestyle so pretty much it's like blitzsage said she is trying to make me paranoid.

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I treasure those who I love that love me in return. <3

its a matter of care parents usually do become over paranoid all the time the internet is now where almost all relations start now a days and i ave to say cops wouldn't really care but being a little careful is it but i have to say but just giving up on believing someone due to a little paranoia is very stupid in my opinion

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