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What do I find attractive in the opposite sex. That is a tough question. One to which I have many answers.

Physically, she has to be relatively fit. I'd like her to be between like 5'4" and 5'9". Being asian helps as does wearing glasses. I think it's extremely attractive when a woman puts her hair up.

More importantly, we need to connect. We need to have something in common. Something to talk about. Whether it be video games, the world cup, Tae Kwon Do, politics, or different scientific topics. She needs to be passionate about things (that way she is not so freaked out by all the things I'm crazy about).

She needs to be intelligent and open-minded. She has to be a fairly nice person. She needs to enjoy a sarcastic, dry sense of humor or she may end up hating me.

Oh, and most importantly she has to like me.

I used to like girls my height (5'8") with straight brown hair... funny how I ended up engaged to a short (5'2") Blonde with really curly hair.
It's kind of amazing how things turn out huh?
As for my dating in school. I never went out with anyone I went to school with. People I went to school with liked to makee fun of me because I refused (and still pretty much do) to wear name brand clothes. Damn conformists!

This post has been edited by Sephiroth on 7th September 2004 05:06

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Heh...well I'm in a pretty sucky situation right now. This girl and me both like each other, but now i just found out her dad is the overprotective type, plus I'm 2 years older than her. I either have to leave her, or be forced into a pretty complicated fix. It's a given that her dad would brand me as the "older guy just trying to get some" type. I'm not like that whatsoever though. This sucks, I'm gonna go listen to some depressing music.

Such a long time ago this thread was. Ahh..nostalgia. If you're wondering, I decided to stick it out and we've been together for 1 year and 8 months today.



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The clouds ran away, opened up the sky
And one by one I watched every constellation die
And there I was frozen, standing in my backyard
Face to face, eye to eye, staring at the last star
I should've known, walked all the way home
To find that she wasn't here, I'm still all alone

-Atmosphere "Always Coming Back Home to You"

Personally i like intelligence and honesty above all else but as far as physical features are concerned i like basically everything however i prefer dark hair and eyes and i absolutely love body piercings.

I don't like to be lead around by my hormones, so I don't really date women. That's not to say that I haven't done so, but I don't like to be controlled by biology. If I'm going to be dating a girl, it will be because I want companionship, someone to share things with and to spread some joy and make her happy, not some drive to breed. This additude which has formed due to seeing people around me constantly get pregnant without thinking... That and the uncontrolled population explosions across the Earth.

As to a woman? I would like her to be slightly above the average in intelligence, kind and compasionate, not very hotheaded, generally positive in additude, able to use both her emotion and logic to make decisions, and of decent physical fitness. Looks are always a wonderful bonus but not as important, as they will fade in time. Must like children but not be fixated on having them. Glasses are just fine. At least one major common interest is a must.

As you can see, I'm not all that likely to meet anyone. I don't care though, as much as I enjoy being around people, I adore being on my own just as much.

I've never been on a date. Never been kissed neither, so double

But I find myself attracted to girls with long hair (short hair just don't do anything for me), and mostly of the non-white sort. Maybe I just grew up with too many white people 'cause white girls are just "meh" to me. :-/

But, really, I'm the quiet, shy, personal type, and I guess I end up being the "friend" all the time, so I don't think I'll really have much of a chance at all at ever getting a date, let alone a girlfriend. ._. I also never even try at all, so it's like I really care about it all that much. ^-^

*hangs "Forever Single" sign around neck* o.o

This post has been edited by Zephir on 7th September 2004 22:11

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* In Progress/Undecided... Of Love and Betrayal
* Planning/Assembly... Where it all Began

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But, really, I'm the quiet, shy, personal type, and I guess I end up being the "friend" all the time, so I don't think I'll really have much of a chance at all at ever getting a date, let alone a girlfriend. ._. I also never even try at all, so it's like I really care about it all that much. ^-^

*hangs "Forever Single" sign around neck* o.o

I'm exactly the same. Besides, I'm already married to my computer.

*grabs another "Forever Single" sign*

Meh...right now, at the age I'm at (14), I don't particularly care for any relationship. I'm sure you all know that teenagers can be whiny/annyoing/talkative.
That's how most girls are at my school, and that's why I spend an hour on the phone with someone not speaking much because I don't find it necessary to talk 24/7. I'm social, yes, but not to the point where I have no other cause in the world. I, too, am like the friend, Zeph. I know girls like me, and I get criticized by all of the male figures for not wanting to date them. Makes me wish I had the Mute spell.

If, however, I find a girl I like, she'll usually have brownish-blonde hair, wears it up, and has to have some speck of intelligence. I'm sure this is all a bit comical coming from a 14-year-old, but it's teh truth, I tell you!

*Hangs Zephir around his neck*
Soooooft.

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You know. I think you're a very special unit.

To begin with, I'm sorta dedecated to Celibacy. However, I still do notice cute guys, and things that I apreciate in their personalties. When it comes to looks, I seem to be into guys with really dark eyes, slightly large noses, and glasses. Hair doesn't really matter, but I don't like them to look like they spent more time on theirs than I did with mine. I also like men that aren't heavyset, but not muscle bound either. Personality wise, I like men who have a strong opionion, but care about my thoughts on things too. I once knew a guy that I hated in every aspect except the fact that when I asked him a question, he asked what I thought on that subject as well. He has to be informed, considerate, and a liberal thinker. Being a fellow gamer doesn't hurt either.

So lesse, Glasses + Skinny + Smart + A gamer.I guess my taste leans towards nerds...

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All my past relationships ended up in shambles, so judging from that track record I don't really plan on getting into anything serious again. I guess I just prefer being single.

However, if I ever did find the perfect guy, his number one quality would have to be a strange sense of humor. He'd have to be someone who's willing to say stupid things right out of left field outloud and not be embarrassed. Of course he'd be intelligent, but also a bit crazy. I'd also appreciate if he had a horrible singing voice but insisted on singing showtunes. Yeah, it sounds weird, but I just want someone who's a bit like myself and has a very positive outlook despite their, uh, lacking talents. I won't lie; he'd also have to have most of the same political opinions as me. As someone else said, I just don't think I could spend my life with a guy who possesses conservative views. I'd also like for him to have at least some interest in the arts, be it drawing, writing, music, anything. It'd be cool if he played an instrument as well so we could jam. I would not want him to be possessive nor believe his thoughts dominate all. I also want a guy I can openly argue with and not have to worry about it jeopardizing our relationship. We could argue about anything, neither backing down, for hours on end. He would also have a slightly sadistic side and be able to make fun of himself and others (just for laughs, of course. Nothing racial/sexist/etc he was actually serious about. I wouldn't stand for bias crap). While I wouldn't want him to be overly rough, I'd like it if he didn't treat me as though he'd break me by giving me a small hug. I want bear hugs, arm-wrestling, headlocks, high-fives, the whole nine yards. He'd be friendly around kids, but not be in a rush to have any. And last but not least, open-minded and sweet, but not sickeningly sweet.

Physically I like guys with dark brown or black hair cut above the shoulders, but preferably shorter than that. I don't really care about eye color, but green and blue tends to jump out at me. I'm not terribly fond of the tan look either, nor extremely muscular bodies, so a pale relatively fit person is more to my liking. I don't care about piercings or tattoos one way or another (as I have them myself, so I can't say I hate them) just as long as he doesn't have a two-inch barbell through his nasal septum. I don't particularly want to date a coat hanger. While looks are by no means the most important feature to me, they are a bonus. To tell the truth, as long as he had the ideal personality I'd be happy.

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If anything simply cannot go wrong, it will anyway.

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Boing! Zoom! - Mr. Saturn

Heh... my only relationship lasted approximately... 15 hours. I asked someone out whose personality had a lot to be desired. She was also constantly being led around be her best friend, so i can't really respect her anymore. What infuriated me, was she looked past my personality and intelligence (in all HUMILITY. i AM NOT boasting.), and examined my looks instead. So... yeah... 15 hours. I calculated. She dumped me after that for my messenger (the middle person, who conveyed my messages because i was too shy to talk to her about certain things), which infuriates me even MORE, and led me to question her sanity at that point.

As a result, i no longer go for looks. I used to, but after where that got me, i knew better. I now look for personality and intelligence. I don't really care what they look like, as i used to, the shame that that 15-hour one brought me taught me never to look for solely good-looking people ever again. I'm not saying its wrong to go for looks, I'm saying I'll never do that again, because it does not suit me at all.

Oh... the shame... 15 hours... Bah... never was any good at it anyway...

This post has been edited by MarquisElmdor on 8th September 2004 19:50

The first thing I would look for is the appearance of the girl. She would have to be around my height or a few inches shorter. Being asian is also another factor. I dont have anything against other races, but for me she has to be asian, nothing else. Then the hair... it has to be kinda like Garnet's hair after she cuts it but a little longer. Eyes would have to compliment the rest of the look. She has to be thin, but not like a stick. Finally, she has to look pretty. Not necessarily for others, but for me. The next thing is personality and intelligence. She has to be a kind, caring person that would care for me. Not very explosive. She cannot also be talkative and annoying. If theres something i cant stand more than frequent random battles, it would be a a super talkative highly annoying girl. Finally, being smart is a major plus, as i would be able to hold an intelligent conversation with her.

But then again, I'm a quiet, shy person, so no one would go for me... I'm usually invisible to just about every girl that matches the profile... oh well...

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- Shitan, Xenogears

Wow, could I rant on my entire history of potential (but not successful, alas) relationships with girls. Well, I just summarize it then...

A short history of my...whatever you call it:

Back in 10th grade, my AP Statistics teacher was unusually lenient on his students, and let people do whatever on his classroom's computer. This led one of my friends to download a Chrono Trigger ROM (someone else had already grabbed an SNES emulator) and start playing. After a while, I realized that I quite enjoyed seeing Lucca's menu portrait, much more so than anyone else's. I didn't know what that was then, though.

About halfway through 10th grade, I began to "notice" "girls"...or, one particular girl, named Meredith. She wasn't big or fat, she wasn't skinny either, but she was relatively small. She had not-too-long flowing blond (or as I like to say it, golden, because that's how it looked to me) hair, and she wore glasses. I met her in gym class; gym class uniform was a white or gray solid-color t-shirt (she wore white) and black or green shorts (she wore green). She had a forceful personality; coincidentially, she was the younger sister of a former acquaintance (from a family of 11 children) who had previously asked me to do his math homework for him and whom I had refused, while offering tutoring. Somehow she recognized me (probably her brother told her), and when she first did and first spoke to me, she complained that I didn't do her brother's homework for her. I argued back saying that it wouldn't be right. I don't think that dispute went anywhere, positive or negative, in any case.

Now I've been the kind of person who, before I "matured", wanted to have little to do with sticky or overly emotional/sentimental love stories. But suddenly, even before I figured out what was happening, I felt obsessed with the name "Meredith". It would almost ring through my mind. One most memorable part of that experience was when I discovered that the emulator on our classroom computer wasn't good enough to run Mega Man X3, one of my favorite games; I vividly remember the glitched graphics that I watched and tried to deduce as I heard the Intro Stage theme song (music has a big impact on me sometimes); this happened coincidentially as I started to hope that Meredith would become my lifelong friend and partner, fighting alongside me, figuratively (and in the game I'm now making, literally), but then was struck by a virus that made my skin all red and dry for exactly three weeks (as predicted by my pediatrician) and suddenly went away, and in these three weeks my English teacher assigned William Golding's Lord of the Flies--all these things came together as I would sit out in the sun at my house's patio (sitting in the sun was recommended symptom treatment for the infection), intensely trying to read LotF (and having a morbid curiosity even though the story just kept on going down and down), and having the MMX3 Intro Stage music and the name "Meredith" running around through my mind.

Turned out that Meredith was probably not my best choice: she was a flirt, and she generally preferred macho guys who showed off their masculinity. (I'm notably non-macho; I'm not muscular (except possibly my legs, from walking and running a lot), I don't try to attract "hot girlz" or except them to flock to me, I'm no athlete, much less an American football player, and I don't like and don't try to show off an "I'm bigger, stronger, and better than you" personality.) And she never "liked" me; when I told her at the end of the year that I liked her, she said "I don't feel the same way about you". Somehow, I didn't feel heartbroken; I felt like fighting her, in an RPG battle kind of sense. And the strangest thing was that I never regarded her as "beautiful", "pretty", "attractive", or "hot" (a term I strongly oppose)--I described her, to myself, as "powerful". I still am not sure why I did that, but that's what happened. (The closest I came to a "standard" term, so to speak, was "good-looking".)

What was probably an interesting coincidence was that Meredith, for a while, went out with this big football player who was a good friend of mine from 9th grade. What was probably a much more interesting coincidence was that that same friend later dated (for a while) the smartest girl in our graduating class, named Erin, who turned out to be the second girl that I directed my "liking" toward. That kind of rivalry ended after a while, when they broke up. However, another person, who was in some ways my academic rival, started dating Erin, possibly out of spite. They later broke up as well, but Erin never liked me. Erin is a very intelligent as well as athletic person (she ended up in Stanford), and while I have to admit that I don't think she's the most physically attractive person (Meredith probably won there), I thought she was more worth my time and effort. But--yeah, she never liked me either.

And now, here I am, a second-year college student, trying to find a girlfriend in my spare time.

Ideally speaking...

Personality-wise, I want a girl/girlfriend/fiancee/wife/love interest/very close friend who is quite intelligent--being wise would be a much-welcomed bonus. She should be sensible, at least, and also have a strong sense of morality. I don't want a girlfriend just for the sex--that comes after marriage. I want a companion who's willing to share her life with me and with whom I'm willing to share my life. I want a girl who dresses decently, talks decently, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink in excess, and isn't obsessed with sexual/intimate relations and relationships. I want a girl who can and will fight me if and when necessary. I want to feel like an equal--neither lesser nor greater. She should be forceful, and not act like a "damsel". However, on the other hand, she should be compassionate and considerate, friendly, and relatively normal (that is, e.g. no strange dyed hair color or tongue or bellybutton rings).

(Trying to look girlie or sexy or dressing in tight jokes of shirts with and showing bellybuttons turns me off VERY QUICKLY. In that vein, many female pop stars are basically immediate throw-outs--so immediate that they almost beg to be thrown out, so to speak, since they try to flaunt their breasts and behinds, dress very scantily, often exposing their not-to-be-seen parts, and constantly try to act sexy. I also prefer against a girl acting like a stereotypical girl--a "damsel", so to speak--e.g. overly fancy speaking and hand motions, for example.)

Physically, I prefer a...well, neither fat nor skinny. I don't want a "toothpick", as one of my high school friends has described some girls; nor do I want an obese or "fat" girlfriend. I want to say "sleek", despite it's possible misinterpretations, because I think that's the word I would use personally (regardless of how other people use it) to describe the body shape I'd prefer in a girl--basically, not lean or skinny or anorexic, but...maybe "aerodynamic" would be a more understandable term, as being healthy and having at least some muscle would be appreciated. It's hard to describe in any case, but I do have some specifics, such as having a relative dislike of bigger behinds (or anything calling attention to behinds--C'mon, people, your rear end is ugly enough as is; please don't make a point about showing it off to people.) and preferring smaller breasts. Bigger eyes seem to slightly increase a girl's attractiveness (honestly, this has nothing to do with anime). I seem to prefer girls who wear glasses (the Lucca factor, maybe? ), as well as girls who tie their hair into ponytails (although the girls that I find especially good-looking seem to more often have their hair let down). I also seem to prefer (for whatever reason that I don't know) girls with straight hair over girls with wavy or curly hair. Racially, I am Asian/Pacific Islander (Chinese heritage), but I seem to prefer white girls over Asian girls (and within Asians, east Asians over south Asians), and both of them over black girls. Hispanic girls are mixed in, but seem to average between white and Asian. (Happens so that Meredith and Erin are both of Irish descent, the former of Catholic Irish, the latter of Protestant Irish.)

The clothing that, to me, would probably make a girl look most attractive is probably a buttonless t-shirt and decently-lengthed athletic-style shorts (not too short, not too long). Maybe a jacket, but the kind that just fits well--nothing baggy really looks that good. In terms of swimwear, I generally find that girls look significantly uglier in "stringy" skimpy bikinis, and I prefer seeing girls in competition-style one-piece swimsuits.

Wow. That was a real rant. I might have beaten my previous record. Sorry it's so long, but I tried to cover every point that I have to say related to the topic, since I've thought about stuff like this and come up with my 2-cents worth on a lot of issues. I just wanted to be comprehensive. And please pardon any typos, if any. I'll clarify/explain any errors if you point them out.

This post has been edited by Glenn Magus Harvey on 11th September 2004 07:19

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Well, what I've always looked for in a woman.

First off, they must be kind. The one thing that is a huge turn off for me is a woman who is spoiled, or mean, or B**chy, or anything like that. They've got to be fun, and smile alot. Be happy, and cheerful.

As far as looks go. I like woman who are between 5'4, and 5'9ish (I'm 6'1). I like longer hair, and shorter hair is alright, as long as it isn't "guy" short. It has to still look like a feminine hair cut if it is shorter. I like Green/Hasel, or Blue eyes. Don't like brown as much, but eye color isn't a huge deal to me. Hair color.... most anything but black, but again, not a big factor. Skin color really doesn't matter to me. And lastly, I like a woman with rounded hips, and big breasts. Yea.. I said it. *loves a woman with curves* I've never been attracted to skinny, boney girls. Might be because I am a bit heavy-set. *shrugs*


Good thing I found the perfect woman to fit that mold!

This post has been edited by Fadien on 11th September 2004 06:30

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"And that, my liege, is how we know the Earth to be banana-shaped” -Sir Bedevere the Wise

Hmm. I thought alot about what i wanted to say before i posted here. And i guess along with some preference i'll throw in a horror story because i'm sure you'll all enjoy my misery. (smiles make it better right?)

Well i like a girl that plays off my shortcomings. Whereas I might intravert socially, I like a girl thats a little more outgoing and aggressive than me. Opposites attract i suppose. However i also can't stand idiots. I need a girl thats smart and maybe reads a book because she wants to . (just today a girl told me i was being ignorant to her when she meant Impudent so i tore her head off..verbally .)

I need her to make me do things because quite frankly i don't care to try new things without being coaxed. I honestly don't care to .though for some odd reason i might regret it later.

Appearance wise , i'll be real. I like cute girls. Its the one thing that kills me over and over but hey, its true: You'll do anything for a pretty face. Thats a problem because i don't liek being jerked around either- Story Intemission example-

I was sitting in health class last year doing a project with some friends (It was cool because we got to use rotte.com pictures in our presentation) and this really really cute girl came up to me (She's been cute since 6th grade and just got hotter every year.) and asked for some gum. I was like- "no" first. Then she kinda threw that pouty tone into her voice and said 'Please Matt' . now my name had been used. I knew she just wanted the gum and really wanted nothing to do with the little gamer social failure, so i managed a less strong "No". Now she brings out the big guns- Puts on that really cute face- Lowers herself to level with my desk and says - Please Matt? Now that was like- UGGG- but i somewhow managed to resist that too. I sort of started smiling liek an idiot and said no again. Now she grabs my arm- lovely human contact- and starts begging me rapidfire. And i find i can't say no anymore. I can just start laughing nervously. SO as you can guess she got her gum . I tried my best.

The best eyes I have to say are brown. Big brown eyes. Yeah those are byfar the prettiest eyes ever..

Anyways thats it.

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Good thing I found the perfect woman to fit that mold!

Congrats man. You mentioned you were getting married before. Good for you.

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If you've been mod-o-fied,
It's an illusion, and you're in-between.
Don't you be tarot-fied,
It's just alot of nothing, so what can it mean?
~Frank Zappa

Sins exist only for people who are on the Way or approaching the Way

I find absolutely nothing attractive in the opposite (or same!) gender. Not exactly a people-person. ==

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Uwao. aooh! I'm Gau!
I'm your friend!
Let's travel together!

hmmm...

Well the only girls i like are the ones described by the topic starter (i've read too many posts and can't remember his name) except the ponytail thing...

There a girl like that at my skool, just one problem though.... shes part goth, and it seems like the only friends i can make are goths (not that goths are bad or anything, just the overall mood makes me depressed)

I used to be popular, quite smart and attractive, then what happens... my mum moves me to a school with people i don't know, streets i can't remember, and no friends, i'm still building up my popularity.

But overall i'm a depressed teen who makes advanced game, has gothic friends, is extremely smart, and could kick your ass if i wanted to (my confidence is low though, so i barely ever kick someones arse unless they bully me)

This post has been edited by EvilMoogle on 12th September 2004 10:54

well...... um...... i like.... well...... any girls...... i'm not picky...... cuz i'm not good looking enough to be....... well.... if i HAD to chose..... i'd say a girl who isn't shallow (judges on looks and/or actions alone) as i am one ugly crazy person... lol you can check out my pic on my profile if you don't believe me....... also someone who is very protective of me.... not that i need it.... but so that i can have that feeling of security.... that if i get myself into something that i can't handle, that she'd be there for me..... also.... someone i can say romantic'ish' things and not feel like a retard...... also someone who makes me feel special..... like my girlfriend..... i absolutely love her..... because to me she's perfect.... and regardless of what she thinks.... she's beautiful..... she's smart (she won't let me tell her this.... cuz she thinks she's an absolute retard)...... she's a few pegs short of being as wierd as i am (which is a definate plus)....... and did i say she's beautiful?

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yeah.................................. this topics awesome to read i guess we kinda all want a cute girl dont we?

Beauty is deceiving.

Usually all the pretty people are the mean and unbalanced ones. I'm always skeptical when I see a pretty face, therefore...

It's like, "Heeey--no, wait... they might actually be real buttholes when I get to know 'em... ¬¬"

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* Completed... Dragon's Head
* Completed... Soldiers of the Empire: Disciples (release pending)
* In Progress/Undecided... Of Love and Betrayal
* Planning/Assembly... Where it all Began

This is difficult for me cause I never even thought about it...
except he has to be respectful not a flaming pervert...(which most guys at school are...), at least be kind, not stupid, at least be smart, has a great conversation but quiet, maybe funny but not disgusting, they should know me very well, & more open to me, smiles a lot that makes me smile too, know how I feel, something in his eyes that are special, maybe a bit teasing, daring(that's the charm of them), and a little protective...

I'm mostly not that socializing cause the guys at school are flaming disgusting idiots. But most of the guys are nice to me...and I'm not interested of chasing the perfect guy...cause I like being alone...you know single...most of the time...& anyways I have a very overprotective parents especially my father...he doesn't even want me to talk to any boy in my neighborhood even ones that are younger than me, but I have friends that are boys in school and he doesn't care...

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Auron might be good, but I'm better...=p*

My first visits....:
*Returning from home-Returner
*Trying to find a Cactuar Costume for Halloween-Cactuar
*Treasure hunting for more shiny things, & candy-Treasure Hunter

Current Location:
*Crusading hell, I want to assasinate Satan but don't tell him what my plan is okay....?-Crusader

I haven't, to this day (i'm almost 18) met a girl that I want to spend the rest of my life with. I have several female companions, that's not at all the issue. I just don't require what most people do from the opposite sex. I get plenty of companionship from friends, and I am under no circumstances desperate to have any type of intercourse (there's always drunken flings ont the weekend ). Basically, I just don't see the point in having a significant other at this point of my life. Maybe one day I'll change my mind, but for now it's all good.

This post has been edited by CT_Magus on 16th September 2004 02:38

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Beauty is deceiving.

I wholeheartedly agree.

I'm ten days late with that pic, but oh well.


Personally, I go for personality way before looks. Sure, looks can give you an impression without talking to the person, but I see so many relationships in my teenage life that are based on appearances. I don't want my relationships to be like that.

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Wow. 1,000 posts.

I miss you all now that I'm in boarding school! ;_;

People who are kind and make me feel good inside. And their ass
Just kidding. But they cannot be ugly like h***. They have to be a bit good looking too. But The goodness is most important!

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I am a Chimp! I am the newest n00b here!

I can't believe I didn't see this thread before.

I guess I'm what some might call too picky. Really, though, I've never looked at myself that way. I'd instantly fall in love with any girl who met the criteria I generally look for.

-Can't be snobbish, rude, or "bitchy". I'm generally laid back, and almost always am fine with "going with the flow". I don't see why some people have trouble being like that.
-Intelligence pulls in a lot of points. I'd dearly love to carry on a discussion about politics, news stories, (SOCCER) or something similar with a girl.
-Call me shallow, but I'll always look for a girl that's physically attractive. I always thought I looked fine, despite my height at 5'6. Oh, having said that last part, at most I'd want a girl to be only an inch taller than me. She might feel stupid otherwise.
-Last thing, and it's a big one. She needs to like me.

Although I've been on "dates" (LOL) before, I still haven't met a girl that meets these four qualities. Hopefully she doesn't have the first three qualities only. Because that makes Nu sad.

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