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Posted: 29th September 2002 05:20

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Quote (Hsiu @ 28 Sep. 2002, 20:52)
I like men who can sing.  Can you sing?  Would you like to be my boyfriend?

Well when I was younger, my choir teacher wanted me to go out for the Wisconsin State Boys Choir...

Unfortunately, my voice changed and I can't sing worth crap anymore. My voice will still crack sometimes if I try to sing a higher note. Haha.

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Posted: 29th September 2002 23:11

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Quote (MorgueN @ 29 Sep. 2002, 00:14)
That sounds a bit direct doesn't it?

Never underestimate a Vassar girl ;)  Men who are musical are very attractive, though.  There's something very elegant about a guy playing the chello or viola.

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Posted: 29th September 2002 23:58

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I can sing! ^.x

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Posted: 30th September 2002 02:07
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my likes are very basic, I like boobs and I like the shape of the female hip region ^_^. no bare shoulders or small feet or anything like that. I like girls.

personality wise,  I don't like it when women treat love like some kind of game.  learning that a girl has a boyfriend is a major turn off to me.

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Posted: 3rd October 2002 19:40
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Dating at my age is such a harrowing experience.  It's not about what I want as much as who I want to be myself, an image crisis!  I've forgotten (as many others have as well, i'd bet) what I really want anymore.  And if that doesn't breed despondancy, well, what does?

Besides, in our culture men are (mostly) all so showvenistic (sp?) and narrow-minded they can't be themselves while women (mostly) are so repressed the can't express themsleves either it's hardly worth leaving your home on Friday night anymore.  So few people have the capacity to be independant or comunicate that nobody can hope to hear another soul.  Thus, we have meaningless, pointless, fruitless superficial realtionships based on sex and power and there's no growth.  We all have to identify our situation and see if it checks out as this or not, love's important and you MUST find it.

Anyway, I like slender girls. :nods:   Perhaps a slightly rounded face with bright, intelligent eyes and short, dark hair.  Fair skin is always desireable too.  And I like them to be mellow yet very warm, compassionate and affectionate.  I suppose I want someone who is similiar in appearance and very different in personality from me.  Weird, no?

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Posted: 3rd October 2002 23:32

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Quote (mael_duin @ 29 Sep. 2002, 21:07)
my likes are very basic, I like boobs and I like the shape of the female hip region ^_^. no bare shoulders or small feet or anything like that. I like girls.

personality wise,  I don't like it when women treat love like some kind of game.  learning that a girl has a boyfriend is a major turn off to me.

Nah it's when they go on forever about their boyfriends. You have no idea how annoying that is.
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Posted: 4th October 2002 03:27
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I've seen a number of insights on this thread that I admire and respect --
Confidence, ambition, trust, spontenaity, an interest - rather, passion - for learning, love's beautification of its target;
Creativity, which brings beautiful potency to a person;
Maturity, which brings eternal refinement - though comes only with time and embraced experience;

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Posted: 4th October 2002 05:16
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Quote (MorgueN @ 3 Oct. 2002, 18:32)
Nah it's when they go on forever about their boyfriends. You have no idea how annoying that is.

I know what you mean.

eye contact, hair flipping, nervous smile, sounds good huh? then the topic turns to her GI boyfriend.  >_<    

Nowadays when that happens i just look at my watch claim to be late and run for it. :rolleyes:

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Posted: 4th October 2002 18:24

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I play the piano, personally, though I'm either a bit too young or a bit too old for Hsiu, depending on who you believe.  ;)

In general, I like a girl who's trustworthy, honest, and a person who you can talk to.  I'd also like someone with whom I have a good deal in common with, though not so much as to make things boring.  (A little controversy is always nice now and then.)  I'd also like someone who is intelligent, and with an interest in literature and the fine arts.  A calm and likeable demeanor is good, too; I wouldn't be very attracted to someone too violent or emotionally unstable.  Looks are just a subsidiary for me.  But being honest, I must say that a pretty girl would be nice.

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Posted: 4th October 2002 22:26

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I remember this girl at work didn't say a word. But when she did it was "Me and my boyfriend did this/did that". She'd always interrupt a conversation just add something refering to her boyfriend. If he is so great he must have been Ace Rimmer from Red Dwarf.
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Posted: 18th October 2002 05:58
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Well i have to say...first personality. That realy shows a persons character. Then i stare at there eyes, because they always are beuautiful, unlike my hazel eyes *sigh*. Plus they must like punk rock heh. And she would have to be outgoing (not as in shopping) and not care about her looks so much and shoes or hair or whatever. I hope to find someone like that someday..*sigh* but its only a wish....

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Posted: 18th October 2002 06:01
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If he is so great he must have been Ace Rimmer from Red Dwarf.
hay whats wrong with that show its kicka$$ lol and funny as hell. =D

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Posted: 18th October 2002 16:05
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I also look for someone whom I can feel comfortable with. I also look for someone who can give me the same amount of affection that I would give her. Looks are important no matter what anyone says. Nice personality and fun loving... Violence is a great factor for me. If she's as crazy as me and does stupid stunts for fun and acts like a friggin nut job then she's MINE!:) About the violence... pain can be fun... trust me. I guess that's about it.

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Posted: 19th October 2002 08:02

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Quote (Hsiu @ 28 Sep. 2002, 20:52)
I like men who can sing.  Can you sing?  Would you like to be my boyfriend?

Hot damn, I can sing! I can sing!!!!!!!!! ...why is everyone looking at me? I'm not dead, just enjoying collllllllllllllllllege!
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Posted: 19th October 2002 16:20

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Man! Half the girls *ahem* and women in this thread have damn near described me! Why can't I get a date!?!?!? >_<

Seriousley, though, it's good to know I'm of the desired breed...

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Posted: 19th October 2002 23:55

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It takes time "Did I just say that"? Well anyway. The point is I'm not looking desperately I hear stories from my friend at church who has three boys wrapped around her little finger. And these guys are moving fast and desperately wanting a relationship with her and she keeps saying no.

So you see I'm not looking it may be painful going it alone. But if I got desperate I'd only find someone desperate and then not want to be with her when we were no longer desperate and realised we went too fast.

So everywhere I go I pretend I enjoy my freedom. Plus scientific evidence proves that the most popular past times enjoyed by males were done alone. Be that true I better do it all now then not regret it latter when married and divorce (as a certain uncle of mine did).

So may argue "But I can't live like this anymore". Well you have been living and will continue to do so, the question is why complain about it?
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Posted: 20th October 2002 23:28

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Quote (MorgueN @ 19 Oct. 2002, 18:55)
So[me] may argue "But I can't live like this anymore". Well you have been living and will continue to do so, the question is why complain about it?

The worst thing a person can do is accept their "fate". Things can change, so why tell someone that they never will?

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Posted: 21st October 2002 00:16

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As soon as a person accepts their fate then change is possible. Infact that change will be for the better. I never said things wouldn't change. Change always happens. A girl cannot tell you actually are the desired breed when your chasing them around. Let them come to you. You all may say it is the male that initiates the relationship. But you have start out as friends first then continue being friends and wait until the girl gives the hint they like you. Girls respect guys who are patient with them and not forcing them. I may be wrong but that is what I learned.
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Posted: 21st October 2002 01:05
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Speakin of change...

God help any woman who thinks they can change the way I am.  I got the nice trick of indifference (I'm known in my family as "the guy who does give a sh!t) to get by any of that nonsense of changin the way I am.  Aint nothin in the world ever gonna get me into a 'ball and chain' situation and if I can avoid the annoyance of someone who wants to try, then all the better.  Never understood that whole concept of 'refinin yo man' anywho.  If you don't like the way they are when ya meet 'em, then why bother with the relationship in the first place?

So here's a shout-out to all the ladies!  Whussup wit dat?!  :p

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Posted: 21st October 2002 01:53

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Speakin of change...

God help any woman who thinks they can change the way I am.  I got the nice trick of indifference (I'm known in my family as "the guy who does give a sh!t) to get by any of that nonsense of changin the way I am.  Aint nothin in the world ever gonna get me into a 'ball and chain' situation and if I can avoid the annoyance of someone who wants to try, then all the better.  Never understood that whole concept of 'refinin yo man' anywho.  If you don't like the way they are when ya meet 'em, then why bother with the relationship in the first place?

So here's a shout-out to all the ladies!  Whussup wit dat?!  :p

Good for you mate. ;)
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Posted: 15th November 2002 01:28

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Frankly, I just need a girl who can accept the fact that I am pathetically insecure and require constant attention...What!? >_>

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Posted: 15th November 2002 01:36
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Quote (MorgueN @ 20 Oct. 2002, 18:53)
Good for you mate. ;)

Well DD, my sentiments exactly.

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Posted: 16th November 2002 14:12

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Speakin of change...

God help any woman who thinks they can change the way I am.  I got the nice trick of indifference (I'm known in my family as "the guy who does give a sh!t) to get by any of that nonsense of changin the way I am.  Aint nothin in the world ever gonna get me into a 'ball and chain' situation and if I can avoid the annoyance of someone who wants to try, then all the better.  Never understood that whole concept of 'refinin yo man' anywho.  If you don't like the way they are when ya meet 'em, then why bother with the relationship in the first place?

So here's a shout-out to all the ladies!  Whussup wit dat?!  :p

Good for you mate. ;)

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That is so dumb!!
Every guy wants a girl that is sure of herself, and confident in herself, what bullcrap!! ESPECIALLY if YOU don't expect the SAME of yourself! And no, not everyguy wants that, but I'm just saying. Argh! I hate it when men do that! And I thought I hate it when women were stupid.
This is just bullheaded.
How can you expect someone to be something that you are not?...
Oi.
Sorry. I had to get that off my chest. *sighs and retreats*

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Posted: 16th November 2002 16:15

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I don't think it's plausible to expect that the person you'll end up marrying or dating will be the exact same as you...it's just not realistic.  Chances are you're going to meet someone who intrigues you because their personality is so strikingly different from yours, and the feeling will be mutual when they discover your personality.  I think it would be boring if you met someone that was exactly the same as you...and wouldn't it be kind of awkward when you kissed them?  It'd be like kissing your clone...or something.  I don't know.  I guess what I'm trying to say is that old, annoying cliché that our differences make us stronger.

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Posted: 16th November 2002 17:01

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hmmm for me a girl has to have a good sense of humor and be someone i can have fun with. a girl that will go to parties with me and get trashed is always a plus. she also has to be smart. apperance is important but not my top priority

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I'm not a fake person, you ask me anything and I'll give you a strait answer. I don't put on a front. Many people are uneasy around me, because they expect me to, and because I see past the image they're putting up. She would have to love life, stick by her convictions, be real (put up no image), and be able to put up with me. Above all, she has to respect herself.
     Being a Brunette with a matronly frame and quick to smile wouldn't hurt, though.
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Posted: 9th December 2002 06:27

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I am an utter moron when it comes to the opposite sex. I would just like someone who looks decent and has a shy, retired attitude and can understand what I feel.

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Posted: 9th December 2002 07:37

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Speakin of change...

God help any woman who thinks they can change the way I am.  I got the nice trick of indifference (I'm known in my family as "the guy who does give a sh!t) to get by any of that nonsense of changin the way I am.  Aint nothin in the world ever gonna get me into a 'ball and chain' situation and if I can avoid the annoyance of someone who wants to try, then all the better.  Never understood that whole concept of 'refinin yo man' anywho.  If you don't like the way they are when ya meet 'em, then why bother with the relationship in the first place?

So here's a shout-out to all the ladies!  Whussup wit dat?!  :p

Good for you mate. ;)

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That is so dumb!!
Every guy wants a girl that is sure of herself, and confident in herself, what bullcrap!! ESPECIALLY if YOU don't expect the SAME of yourself! And no, not everyguy wants that, but I'm just saying. Argh! I hate it when men do that! And I thought I hate it when women were stupid.
This is just bullheaded.
How can you expect someone to be something that you are not?...
Oi.
Sorry. I had to get that off my chest. *sighs and retreats*

Narratorway likes being who he is and I gave him encouragement. Nothing wrong with that.
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Posted: 9th December 2002 23:23

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Heh...well I'm in a pretty sucky situation right now. This girl and me both like each other, but now i just found out her dad is the overprotective type, plus I'm 2 years older than her. I either have to leave her, or be forced into a pretty complicated fix. It's a given that her dad would brand me as the "older guy just trying to get some" type. I'm not like that whatsoever though. This sucks, I'm gonna go listen to some depressing music.

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Posted: 10th December 2002 03:38

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Just ask her out. Respect her and her father will see your good intentions.
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