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Just needed to vent!
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Posted: 11th January 2007 15:58
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K, this week sofar has been an interesting one. After the 2 weeks of holidays, i thought that me and my girl would be going out again. But that was not what happened. i had found out on monday she was in a comma for 2 days, and that she discovered that she has diabetes. with this said, she now can only leave her home for the doctors and school for 2 months. I kinda felt selfish when i heard this cause all i was thinking of was when we will get back together. Then i started thinking about how Diabetes can be fatal, and that something terrible could of happened to her. She felt terrible when she told me this, not that she was sick but that she said it was unfair to me, and all this stuff bout her ex hating her for these kind of things. I dont hate her, not at all, im just a bit frustraited with the fact that i have to proceed with my budha like patience until she gets better. I feel so helpless and selfish at the same time.
Today is Jan 11/07, there was a blizzard yesterday, which meant that school was closed early, and they closed the schools today. So i just wanted to get this out of my system. I dont now if this topics repliable, haha. whatever. -------------------- You Can't Escape... Nowhere to run... Nowhere to hide... |
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Posted: 11th January 2007 16:23
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If you don't feel she is worth waiting for, then you need to break it off because you obviously do not love her.
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Posted: 11th January 2007 16:40
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2 months is not a very long time, not at all. If you care about her, stick with her and be supportive.
I understand that it's hard, but it'll pass. It's only 2 months. Can you visit her during this time? -------------------- I had an old signature. Now I've changed it. |
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Posted: 11th January 2007 16:50
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Well, can't you sick-visit her at home? I know I would. I'd go out of my way to see her as much as I could if I were you. You should support her.
This isn't just waiting. Show her your love. Good luck man. -------------------- "I fell off the mountain of words at around the 10,000ft mark. Tell my family...they owe me money." -Narratorway "If you retort against this, so help me God I'll shove any part of your anatomy I can find into some other part. Figuratively, of course." - Josh "We have more, can deliver tuesday." - Del S Good old CoN |
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Posted: 11th January 2007 17:10
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What prevents you from seeing her at her home during this time? I think she's feeling a lot worse than you, so try to keep this in mind. I would suggest getting her some flowers and and doing other things for her to show how much you care. She's probably feeling really low right now, it's your job as her partner to do your best to change that.
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Posted: 11th January 2007 17:21
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Quote (Hamedo @ 11th January 2007 11:23) If you don't feel she is worth waiting for, then you need to break it off because you obviously do not love her. I feel shes worth it, i mean, yea 2 months, i can handle that. As for the visiting her at home idea, i think its implied that i should, but her mom gives me the chills. But shes a bit stubborn so she says shes fine. But yea ill definatly consider it! Thank s guys, you made my day  This post has been edited by ?????_UknownTrainGhost on 11th January 2007 17:26 -------------------- You Can't Escape... Nowhere to run... Nowhere to hide... |
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